
Constructive Instructive
People making constructive comments, what valuable assets they are.
In my opinion and from some of my readings:
Disagreeing for the sake of doing so, the "no man".
Agreeing for the sake of doing so, the "yes man".
Sitting on the fences and jumping to majority rule, the "see-how man", opportunitists.
Swimming the upstream, going with the minority, the "surviver".
Saying things that rallies a crowd and winning their opinion, the "motivator".
Speaking what is on their mind without a solution; do you have one near you?
If you do know someone, who is able to speak their mind in front of you, to give you a constructive comment on your work, your character, your crafts; i hope you take it all in with good faith.
It is human nature, to want to listen only to things that we like.
It is also human nature, to criticize, without much thought on the difficulties that the other might be facing.
What can we do to make things better for one and all?
Of course, most of us would know that it is impossible to please all, for you would most likely run into the "please none" wall, and have a bleeding nose.
Can you make the best out of what you have and steer away from the risk of growing such a big nose that blocks your vision?

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